Thursday, 27 November 2014

Mad About Plaid

Hey there,

So I'm really excited today because the blog Modestly Wed has featured Yenni and Salem's wedding. Of course, that means that my photographs were featured!  So head on over to her blog and check it out, and of course leave a comment, and tell them I sent ya :)

NOW what kind of blogger would I be If I didn't post a photo...and a story.

This morning as I was getting dressed, I looked at my closet and realized I had quite a bit of plaid. So I decided I wanted to wear all of it today. Yes ALL! Honestly I thought I looked pretty awesome, and decided I was going to take a picture for my instagram buddies. So I set my Ipad camera on the 10 sec timer, and thought to myself "this is going to be the best photo of myself ever!" (Let's be honest we all think that before taking a selfie)

As strange as this may sound, most photographers are kinda awkward when they get in front of the camera. Well at least I am.  So there I was posing awkwardly, and not knowing what to do.  So I had the grand idea of capturing myself in motion.  So I set the timer, and just started waving my hands and being all psycho.

Now one of Benjamin's favorite things to do is put the iPad camera on the timer and rush to the wall.  He just stands there doing nothing, and when it flashes, he laughs his head off!   When he saw me trying to "capture myself in motion" he thought it was hilarious, and wanted in on the fun.  So he runs over to me and says "Me, mama, my turn!" How shall I deny such a request from my child?

There it is, this morning we laughed our heads off by being weirdos! 

OH No, I didn't wear all my plaid this morning.  
I decided on something more "basic"

Good Day! 

Saturday, 22 November 2014

Ms. Yada

My friend Yenni had a beautiful little girl, who she named Yada. 
This baby is gorgeous. She's beautiful! 

One thing I have learned is that you cannot only photograph one child.  
You must take photos of  both, if there is an older sibling. 
Tahilah wanted in on the action too, so why not! 

It's such a blessing to have sisters.  
I pray these two girls become the "bestest" friend of life.  

P.s. I have some wedding pictures coming soon!

Friday, 21 November 2014

Newborn Teaser

Hey there,
Here's a sneak peak of a newborn session.

Meet 7 day old, Yada.
Isn't she Adorbs!?

Friday, 7 November 2014

Friday, 24 October 2014

Tips for Mom-Wife-Student.

When I wrote this post It had been a couple of days after I had received my acceptance letter to college.  I was very excited, as anyone who graduated 10 years ago would be. Finally, one day I laid on my bed trying to fall asleep, and I began to think that I would have to add student to the list of my responsibilities. So, as you can imagine, I did not get much sleep that night just thinking about what I was going to do.  In prayer I asked God to show me how I can balance all of these responsibilities without "burning myself out".  I feel as of now, God has really helped me find a balance.
So now I have couple of tips for those you who are on the same boat, or will be on the same boat as I am. 


If you are a "worry wart" then I have two suggestions for you. Keep an active prayer life. You know how psychologist recommend you keep a diary and write everything down?  Well I suggest the same but in my suggestion, I suggest that you talk with God.What will you say to God? EVERYTHING. Tell him what you are worried about, what is stressing you, what your concerns are.. everything. God will give you peace of mind and you will be able to think clearly.. like Philippians 4:6-7 says " Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."  .. Which lead's me to the second point. . .Write the above verse down, and put it somewhere you can see it everyday. Remember that the word says do not be anxious about anything, don't stress, don't get overwhelmed.  Just pray, and God will give you peace that transcends all understanding. Everyone will wonder how is this person so relaxed, and we are all stressed out?.. well you know the answer. It's all God. 

2. 100% A 100% OF THE TIME? 
Sorry it doesn't matter how much of super mom you are, there is no possible way that you can give 100% to all of your responsibilities, all the time. Come to terms that there will be times where you will have to focus on one responsibility more and ignore the rest.   You have to divide your time, and make sure you have time for yourself too. .. which leads me to my next advice. 

Know your priorities, and make a schedule.  For me, when I am at home, my family and home are the priority. So I schedule homework time during school hours. When I have a class at 11 am, I go to school at 9 am and try to get any assignments done, that way my afternoons are free.  Sitting in the cafeteria eating and chit-chatting with all your friends during your hour long lunch break, is a waist of time and money. After all, you are paying for school, so why not take advantage of that time and head to the lab to work on school work. Have your lunch there.  Make school work a priority when you are at school, it's honestly the best time for homework to be done anyway. My family, and church are a major priority for me. So, doing all my school work at school, leaves the afternoons and weekends free of homework and allows me to focus on my family and church.

Do your homework/assignments as soon as you get them.  why? If you have a child you know they are full of surprises. They get sick randomly, or do things that require immediate attention. Doing your homework right away will eliminate the stress of rushing to get things done on time, at least when it comes to school. You know what else doing your work right away allows...getting ALL your homework done.  When you get all your homework done, you won't have to stay up til wee hours in the morning studying for a test. You will already know the material. Pretty much all your tests are based on the homework you get.. so do it, do it right away, and you will be OK.

I can't stress how much being organized will simplify your life. A To-do list will be your best friends. I have a school planner where I have all my due dates, tests and homework list.  Then, I have everything else on my iPad.  Write everything down...even if it's a song you have to print out for church. This is so important because it will keep you sane. Trust me.

I understand that as Christians we want to support each-other, but we also need to understand that we won't be able to accept every invitation we receive. Which leads me back to priorities.  Should I go to that birthday party or should I get some rest because I have an early class.  What is your priority?  For me, it's school. Therefore I would have to decline the invitation to the birthday party.  In a nice way, of course. Taking on "too much" can overwhelm you, so make sure you don't volunteer for any extra stuff that are'nt necessary.

What's my reason for school? I want to get educated for several reasons.  I feel that the skills I am learning will benefit the church. I want to teach my son the importance of continuing your education, and my husband and I want to be homeowners one day.  I think about these things everyday when I head to school.  They keep me motivated!

In the end balancing all of life's responsibilities comes down to prioritizing, scheduling and being organized. The most important thing to remember is that we can do all things through Christ who gives us strength. 
Sorry for the tired look, but I was actually a bit sick here :D

*Thanks to my Friend Marwah for the photos.
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